Living in Love and Faith
Living in Love and Faith (LLF)
Living in Love and Faith set out to inspire people to think more deeply about what it means to be human and to live in love and faith with one another. It tackled the tough questions and the divisions among Christians about what it means to follow Jesus in a society in which understandings and practices of gender, sexuality and marriage continue to change.
In 2021 about 30 people attended the adult version of the course. YFC youth also did the course. Many of those attending were keen that our parish does more to welcome and include everyone whatever their sexuality or gender. Others grappled with the material and came to no firm conclusion/ resolution, and a few stood by their support of the church’s traditional view of sexual ethics regarding same sex relationships.
Afterwards the LLF next steps team was formed to discuss what steps our parish takes next, acting on the desire of many to welcome and include everyone whatever their sexuality, but also taking particular care to keep people of all viewpoints informed and included in the way forward.
On June 12th 2023 the PCC agreed the LLF next steps team recommendations to:
1. To state on our website and elsewhere “All welcome, no exceptions, to come as you are.”
2. To further engage all our congregations with these issues, some members of the LLF team have written explaining their journey of understanding and how they have got to their current position and these will be shared in paper form. The hope is that this will open up conversation more widely across the parish and to hear everyone’s voices and viewpoints.
3. To state on our website and elsewhere that there are members of the clergy team who are willing to do same sex blessings.
4. For the LLF next steps team to change its name to the Welcome and Inclusion team and to expand its remit to thinking about welcome and inclusion more broadly.
Since then conversations have continued and on the 3rd September 2024 the PCC agreed that we are striving to be a LGBTQI+ friendly parish.
Resources to listen to, read or watch
Here are some resources that some people have found helpful from the Welcome and inclusion team. We are not recommending these or saying that we agree with everything.
Those on the Welcome and Inclusion team are: Adjoa Andoh-Cunnell, Jonathan Bellamy, Simon Brindley, Juanne Fuller, Ben Goodyear, Rhianna Goodyear, David Milner, Winnie Obese-Bempong, Clare Pallet, Gill Tayleur.
We have deliberately provided resources here that reflect a wide variety of differing viewpoints to help us understand other people’s views better.
We want to include and welcome everyone but we recognise that we have people in our parish with both traditional and inclusive views and we want to be able to continue to hold them both and respect them both. We may disagree but we aim to disagree well.
Books/Papers
At February 2023 General Synod, it was voted to allow clergy to bless same sex couples in church and voted to “lament and repent” of the failure of the Church to welcome LGBTQI+ people and for the harm that LGBTQI+ people have experienced – and continue to experience – in churches.. They acknowledged that the proposed way forward does not go nearly far enough for many, but too far for others. You can read more about what was voted on, here:
https://www.churchofengland.org/media-and-news/press-releases/prayers-gods-blessing-same-sex-couples-take-step-forward-after-synod
The Bishop of Oxford’s Steven Croft booklet* Together in Love and Faith states a way forward with some Biblical backing to his rational:
There is also response to the Bishop of Oxford by Vaughn Roberts from a traditional perspective which can be viewed here https://ceec.info/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/Vaughan-Roberts-Together-in-Love-and-Faith-a-response.pdf
Affirmative: Why You Can Say Yes to the Bible and Yes to People Who Are LGBTQI+ by Jonathan Tallon
The Possibility of Difference by Marcus Green
Same sex relationships by John Stott
Love means Love by David Runcorn.
Visit https://www.churchofengland.org/resources/living-love-and-faith
which is full of resources including podcasts, books and videos.
You can download or purchase a paper copy of the The LLF Book from here. We also have a few copies you can borrow from Parish Office ( or 02077374978).
You can subscribe to listen to the LLF Podcasts here or on whatever podcast app you use.
Websites
You might like to start with these four websites represent some of the views held by people in the UK.
https://www.qchristian.org/resources/theology#bible
“Q Christian Fellowship is cultivating radical belonging” for all
https://www.livingout.org/
“We want to see Christians living out their sexuality and identity in ways that enable all to flourish in Christ-like faithfulness.”
http://www.courage.org.uk/articles/article.asp?id=136
“Why evangelicals must think again about homosexuality.”
http://www.ceec.info/the-beautiful-story.html
“The Church of England Evangelical Council is pleased to present ‘The Beautiful Story’ – a film to encourage and enable evangelicals to engage and contend in discussions about human sexuality.”